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No matter how you were introduced to the wide world of the best strap-on dildos and harnesses—whether through an eager partner or perhaps that one episode of Broad City—there’s plenty of fun to be had here. Strap-ons help people of any gender experiment with new positions and get intimate in ways that their anatomy might not allow otherwise. But with so many options out there and so much hardware to use, getting started can be daunting. Here’s everything you need to know if you’re looking to shake things up in bed, plus tons of strap-on options for everyone.

What are strap-on dildos?

Strap-ons are dildos and vibrators designed to allow someone (usually, but not always, a person with a vagina) to penetrate a partner vaginally, anally, or orally. Most are held in place by harnesses, although some vibrating dildos are designed to be worn solo by people with vaginas. Colloquially, when a woman uses a strap-on dildo to penetrate a man’s anus—which can be incredibly fun for everyone involved, by the way—the act is known as pegging.

Since a strap-on is a sex toy that’s designed to be used with a partner, it’s important to have a discussion before getting down to business. What does the partner on the receiving end want? What are they comfortable with? How important are length and girth? Make sure that you and your partner are 100% on the same page before making an investment in the best dildos.

There are two ways to go about your search: looking for a strap-on set or searching for a dildo and a harness separately. Choosing a kit is typically the less intimidating route, and one that certified sex educator and relationship expert Dainis Graveris recommends to first-timers. On the other hand, “The best way to play with strap-ons might be to choose the harness you love and the dildo you or your partner loves,” explains Good Vibrations sexologist Carol Queen, PhD; buying them separately allows you to cater more to your own personal preferences.

How should you choose a harness?

There are several varieties, according to Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven: jock-style harnesses, which leave your butt exposed; underwear harnesses, which look like regular briefs or panties; and corset-style harnesses, which are similar to jockstraps but involve more lacing. Another less common option is a two-hole harness, which can be used with two dildos or a single dildo and a penis for double penetration. If you’d rather skip the harness thing entirely, strapless dildos are wearable and can be inserted into your vagina and held in place hands-free, kind of like the ultimate Kegel exercise.

Materials should also factor into your decision. Webbing and fabric are the most basic materials, but you can also opt for leather. While the latter is sturdy, it’s also more porous and harder to clean; fabric is generally more comfortable and usually machine-washable. “You can also choose harnesses that look more masculine (with plain fabric or muted colors), skew more feminine (with details like lace), or even BDSM-inspired (with studs and leather), depending on the preferences of you and your partner,” says Sparks.

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